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@bwills

Arizona

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StateVial typeAI · IUI · IVFWilling to shipAncestry
Childhood profile photo for donor @kingston

@kingston

34 · Arizona

Height
5'9"
Eyes
Green
Ancestry
Irish, German
AI At-HomeAI ShippingIUI
Childhood profile photo for donor @cedar

@cedar

29 · Texas

Height
6'0"
Eyes
Hazel
Ancestry
Scottish, Cherokee
AI At-HomeAI ShippingIUI
Childhood profile photo for donor @miles

@miles

31 · Ohio

Height
5'11"
Eyes
Brown
Ancestry
Italian, Polish
AI At-HomeIUIIVF
Childhood profile photo for donor @orson

@orson

36 · Oregon

Height
6'2"
Eyes
Blue
Ancestry
English, Welsh
AI At-HomeAI ShippingIVF

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Anonymous member

Family · 2 days ago

We've just started looking at donors and I honestly don't know where to begin. What's the one thing you wish you'd known first?

2 comments

Donor member

Revealed · 1 day ago

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I've been through this with two families. Ask me anything — I'm happy to talk it through.

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